We all know what is a Paradigm .. first let me say this , they are all perceptions about the way things are and the best part is ... they are all incorrect .. there ... see I have been telling over and over again ... and some just cannot remember or let me just say that they don't know what it means and refuse to accept .
I remember this now and clearly after ..... what 30 over years too late ? All hope is not lost .. I guess I made a mistake of thinking that I was darn ugly in appearance and the word ugly got stucked into my mind and that was how I lived .. I believed that everything I had and put on , no matter what I looked ugly .
Years later , a kind soul left a book lying on my aunt's floor and it was that book which told me how wrong I was about everything in my life . I read the book , 5 to 6 times and again and again , I would pick up that book just to make sure if I was on the right track ....
I seem to have improved over the years and I have become more confident .. Good .. and yes what I see is what I get.
Same thing goes for everything else in my life , when I face a difficult situations , it could be anything from the students in my class right down to my own life , I would always apply this one golden rule ; BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND !
It has helped me a lot .... and I wish that others would apply this to thier everyday lives not only to better themselves but to live a positive life ...
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